After much consideration, we have opened our hearts and home to a puppy. We have sadly lost our beloved Molly Mango, our Sebastian, our Clarabelle and Sophie Dog and we felt the time was right for our Grace who is 13 years old (but thinks she is 8). Our thoughts behind this life changing event were that as our young children grow they would benefit from having a puppy in their lives. A puppy would grow with them, they could learn how to nurture a baby dog, learn how to feed, walk and love it, learn what it needs and how to look after it. All in all a puppy would teach vital life skills to our children.
Having a puppy will be easy we thought, Mark is a Vet and I am a Veterinary nurse with qualifications in dog behaviour and running puppy parties. I bred my English Springer Spaniels, I have had dogs all my life. I spend my career advising owners how to raise well rounded, behaved puppies. I know how to socialise and desensitise them, I could even write a book on the knowledge I have acquired!
And then along came Magena! His name means Moon in Native American. He has big pawprints to step into. Our dogs before him were calm, obedient and loving, well rounded individuals. Grace works as a Therapy dog with Pets As Therapy and when she retires he will need to continue her good work. He has to be able to be handled by anybody, he can’t be noise sensitive or fearful and he has to be able to cope, as Grace does, with wheelchairs, hospitals and lots of people touching him, talking and sometimes shouting. He would need to allow children to grab him as they learn how to respect dogs and not respond in a negative way. So I had my work cut out to find and train a pup. The first step on this road was to find a pup and his parents.
I spent months talking to breeders asking them all the right questions. It frightened me how little knowledge some of them had and how many were doing it just for money. I wanted a puppy that had the following: calm, obedient parents and I wanted to meet both of them as puppies inherit behaviour traits from both parents and if the puppy was to be aggressive for example, I wanted to look both parents in the eye to make sure that wasn’t apparent. I wanted it born and raised in a house environment so they could hear household noises. A puppy’s socialisation period lasts up to 16 weeks of age so the sooner a pup is exposed to things the better. A socialisation period is a during in which you need to expose a pup to noises, stimuli, people, animals etc to reduce the likelihood of them developing a fear of anything later in life. I didn’t want a fearful puppy, I wanted a bold, confident individual that would fit into my family, with all the comings and goings of 2 working parents, 2 children, another dog and a cat. I wanted it wormed with the correct treatments from a vet, vaccinated at 8 weeks and microchipped but most of all I wanted a breeder that ‘felt right’. Then I saw Luna, she was a beautiful Bitch that was pregnant. Her owners Sally and John are caring and were not breeding for money but for the love and it felt right when I spoke to Sally on the phone. We had found our breeders.
Mark wanted a girl but I did not mind having had both dogs and bitches before. I thought I would leave it up to the universe and Luna!
Luna and her pups were 5 hours drive away! So with 2 young children, Grace, plenty of drinks and sweets we made the long journey to Devon. On our way to Luna, we stopped and met the sire of the pups, Buttons. He is a handsome, beautifully marked, obedient boy with kind and loving owners. It was paramount for me to see the father, as I so many times have told owners to do so when choosing puppies. He is a delight, so having that box ticked we continued on our journey to the other side of Devon to meet Luna and her pups.
The pups were 5 weeks old when we met them, Luna had 3 pups. 1 liver and white girl, 1 liver and white boy and a black and white boy. We were second on the puppy list and the first person chose the bitch so a boy it was! Mark wanted liver and white so we picked the only liver and white boy. We fell in love with Luna and her pups straight away. I always advise clients to ask lots of questions to the breeders before you visit the pups because how can you say ‘No’ to a pup when you see it! Good breeders will want you to ask questions and will, in fact, ask you about yourself and what kind of a home you can offer their pup. Sally had done just that and we ticked all her boxes, luckily.
Taking on a puppy is a massive commitment that needs a lot of consideration and dedication. It is for life. I have seen so many adolescent dogs rehomed because they have not fitted into a family. These breakdowns are no fault of the dog. Potential owners need to do their research, budget the costs and make sure they can commit to a puppy. We were ready to commit. We could offer a home with a large garden, good diet, Veterinary care (from home!), healthcare, insurance, lots of exercise and most importantly, a loving family.
When we had met Luna on her own we asked her if she would show us her babies and if we could touch them and she agreed. We lifted our little new family member up and looked into his eyes. The children stroked him and gave him gentle little snuggles. I promised Luna and Magena that I would give him the best home, full of love and runs in the countryside and we left him to continue to grow with his Mummy dog and siblings until he was old enough to come home at 8 weeks of age. It was very hard leaving him but Sally kept me updated as to how he was progressing.
After Christmas and the New year our little Magena was ready to be collected, and he was already the best Christmas present that Mark and myself and the children could have hoped for.
And now he’s home the fun begins.